Tuesday, August 11, 2009

08/11/09 Third Week of Treatment












08/11/09 Well we were up early and out the door by 7:15 am for three of us getting ready we did pretty good. Traffic was not bad this morning so we got to the Moakley Bldg early and up to the Stem Cell Clinic 15 minutes early. Boy did Joe get paid back for all the ribbing he gave out during the Yankees/Red Sox Series. Well one by one the nurses and doctors came in and we were sitting in the waiting area and each one of them had something to say about the Yankees losing the game last night against Toronto and the Red Sox beating the Tigers. He took it in stride though; it actually helped with the nervousness we were all feeling. So we started out with the usual routine of weight, blood pressure and blood test. Then they had to give Joe two hours of hydration and anti-nausea meds before the chemo. Dr. Sanchorawala and Lisa came in and talked with Joe again about everything that would be happening to him over the next few days. They examined him again checked his vitals. He was ready to start the Melphalan this is given over 20 minutes through his catheter, 10 mins prior to starting they have Joe start packing his mouth with ice chip he will continue to do this for a total hour so before, during and after the chemo is being administered. This will shuts down the blood supply to the mouth and protects Joe from serious mouth sores. Side effects don't usually occur right away. They usually begin about 5 days after receiving chemo. They tell us the toughest week is likely to be the week after chemo. Chemotherapy works by attacking the cells that reproduce quickly - both good cells and the bad. In addition to the disease cells, chemo attacks hair cells, and the thin lining of the mouth, esophagus and stomach. The most common side effect are: hair loss, mouth sores, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, fatigue and low blood counts. Joe will also have a compromised immune system so he will need to wear a mask when he is out in the general public and from the time he leaves the stem cell clinic until he gets back to the apartment and then when he returns to the stem cell clinic each day. He is on several medications for anti-nausea and several antibiotics which I will be responsible to administer several times a day which I have been given a chart to follow and check off as I give them to him. He also has to rinse his mouth before and after every meal with baking soda and water and before bed. Joe has remained in good spirits through most of the day he really hated the ice but once his mouth was frozen it was not to bad until it started defrosting. He was acting goofy singing to the ipod he had Lorrie and me cracking up because he would break out in song (usually a Fergie song) and not realize he was singing so loud because he had the earphones on. Tonight he is a little worn down but not feeling to bad. Well I have attached a few pictures of Joe with the ice and looking like the invisible man or MJ. Also I wanted you to see one of the pages of meds he is on that is page one of the check sheets. Joe gets to do all this again tomorrow so keep praying and hopefully tomorrow will go as well as today. We love you and God Bless.

6 comments:

  1. Nice disguise Joe!! The fashion police will never find you behind there!! If they do get too close stay calm, raise the mask slightly, and start spitting ice bullets.

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  2. Hang in there Joe...keep those tunes goin. Music is the best therapy....but my gosh - do you have to listen to Fergie...fergie, fergie, fergie. :) love you guys...prayers are daily. pam

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  3. All this yankee stuff worries me
    I can just see the headline
    Man from Brewerton ny atacked
    Yesterday a man in town from Brewerton NY
    (a small town in upstate NY) was atacked and beaten up as he walked pased the treatment center for senors with alltimeres, A lady only adenifyed as Thalma said "I beat that yankee bastared just like I did that other back in "48" or last year I can't rember"
    A hostpatil spokeperson said "the por guy is in town for chemo. treatment and now he's in here for bruses and a craked rib, but he'll be ok"
    At the police station they said there wouldn't be any charges fild on the account that Mr Bateman was wareing ugly gay looking yankee pamjma pants. (implying that he probly deseved what he got)
    The hostipal reported that the yankee pants were burned!
    Upon questioning, Mr Bateman stated that his eggo was shot."I thought I could take that old crazy bitch" Thats right, he said that she was crazy.
    Sounds crazy Joe? We know ya! be carfull!
    And get well soon and get back here.
    Love Ya
    Robin

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  4. Hi Guys,
    When the going gets tough, the tough get going. This fits you both, keep up the good fight, you'll be able to look back at this experience one day when you are surrounded by great grandchildren and turn to look at each other and say these great grandchildren are harder to handle than the time we had to go to Boston. =)
    Stopped by to see Ducan today, he told me he misses you both. I gave him bunches of kisses for both of you, it made him smile. He knows Daddy is sick and can't wait until you come home.(his tail is still staying curved.) He was happy that Uncle Tom surprised him with a new toy today, if you look at the pic I sent you can see his new little buddy by his right paw.
    The lawn looks good, going to mow tomorrow, still alittle wet from the rain.
    Stay strong and keep pushing forward, you will be back home before you know it.
    Lorrie I did not want to forget about you, thank You and David for giving your time to help with Joe's recovery by being there to help Mary.
    Love you all
    Your Big Bro
    Tom

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  5. JOE,

    You are a brave man, wearing yankee pj's in Boston, wow. I know you are having fun with all of your care takers outside of Mary but be careful... I know you to well, that it will be hard for you to do. One of these days when you are dozing off during treatment and Mary has her head turned, they are going to tattoo a Red Sox logo on your ass..... Yup, no one will see it but it'll always be there...Just kiddng, keep it up..
    The road is going to get a little bumpier now, hang in there buddy. You two are always in our thoughts and prayers.

    Doug & Chris

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  6. Dear Joe:
    What an ordeal you're going through. But with God and Mary by your side, you'll gain your strength back and be good to go. When you think you've reached "tough" on a scale of one to ten, just be tougher. Keep up the fight.
    Love, Aunt Kay

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